Tuesday, March 24, 2009

being diva's

We've arrived in Alabama.  It is such a beautiful state!  We are enjoying every minute here.  We arrived around 3 on Sunday and we did a quick drive around Huntsville.  Later that evening we went out for some mexican food.  We are being utterly spoiled, and having a great time.

Annika resting up to explore Alabama!



Have french fries- will travel



I've been partaking of the coffee bar regularly.



And feeling like a princess in a super comfy bed!



And eating like a princess.  Nothing like a little comfort food from back home!!

We did some exploring, so I will post about that once I get the images off the rebel.  

Stay tuned!!


Friday, March 13, 2009

Frantic Friday...

I feel like this whole weeks has been about catching up on all that I let go of while Madie was sick.  The house was kinda out of control, and I had so much to get done for school.  I think this semester was about the instructors cramming as much info into my little head as they could.   Then with one week left they expect me to take my newfound knowledge and turn in these stellar papers, and take all these quiz's and exams.  in less than 3 weeks I've written 6 papers (2 of which were 8 pages), participated in 3 discussion boards, taken 6 quiz's, submitted one video project as a final, and completed 4 final exams.... And I wonder why I am so excited at the prospect of driving 6 plus hours with 4 children to Bama to spend Spring Break with my fab sister?  Sanctuary!!

I sent my camera to Vietnam on it's very own vacation.  My wonderful father in law is in Vietnam on a missions trip to help with the building of churches, and training of pastor's there.  We sent along a laptop and our camera for him to use.  I hope these tools are being helpful to him in his works.  Before he left though we made him celebrate his Anniversary.  (Well, we didn't make him... but it made for a full weekend for the guy!)  Don and Marsha have been married for 40 years!  

Here is the happy couple showing us what it was like 40 years ago! 


Some things never change... Well maybe Marsha's hair style.


I panicked when I arrived with the cake of the left, 
only to find the cake on the right!
We had 2 sheet cakes to feed 25 people.  
Everyone got to take a (large) piece home!

Other news...
Noah got to visit Carol, his occupational therapist.  She gave us some ideas on products that would help Noah.  One was a compression vest.  He tried it during his therapy session and he LOVED it.  If there was a stronger emotion word, he would have used it.  We are also looking at some other products to use in the home to help him out.  We are also looking at camps for the summer that specialize with kids on the spectrum.  Noah thrives on structure, and when school gets out, he tends to go bonkers.  To make these a reality we have decided to apply for social security for Noah.  We have discovered that the spectrum is considered an applicable disability for children.  The monthly benefit would be a great help in offsetting the cost of activities that are recommended, and the products required to help him.  I go to SSI this next week, and I am hoping for a smooth appointment!  What an opportunity to know that I can make sure Noah gets the resources he needs to help him succeed!  

This weekend is about studying for finals, cleaning, and prepping for our busy schedule the following weekend!  We are going to a wedding on Saturday, and then Sunday morning the kids and I head out for our spring break vaca!! YESAH!

I'll try to have something more funny, or interesting next time!  :)


Tuesday, March 10, 2009

When #4 ( My Baby ) Turns 4

As I write this, little Annika is down stairs playing.  It is hard to imagine that 4 years have passed since Aaron and I celebrated her arrival into our lives.  She may be growing into a bright, and amazing young lady, but she is my baby.  Of course, I can't say that with her around.  I enjoy watching her grow, and gain independence.  She is such a smart cookie, and I love how she has woven herself into the fabric of our family.


Who could resist this little face, especially when she says, "please".


Here she is earlier in the day on Saturday before her party.  It was a Tinkerbell party. 
Unfortunately, she went outside, and got mud on her dress.


Tinker cake, make by the cake fairies at Wal-mart


Annika opening her gift from Kaila.  A tinkerbell camp set and Tinkerbell dolls!


The Mogel girls showing off their tinker head bands, stylish!


Keeping her eye's on the gifts!


Annika really likes her tinker towel!  Thanks Vogels!


Tinker purse to hold all her dolls.


I love the look on her face.  She realizes that it is a big doll house.
Mamaw and Papaw got her extra play sets to go with her new house. (see chair)


This is Mrs. Goodbee, the talking doll house.  It is over 2 feet tall.
Annika is pressing the button to hear the doorbell.


Here I am with Mrs. Goodbee.  I always wanted a doll house!

Now I know why my mom didn't get me a doll house.  
Here I am with over 100 stickers (see the colorful page by my knee?) that
had to be strategically placed in various rooms.


My sweet baby girl, you make me smile everyday.  You show wisdom beyond your years, and keep us laughing with your amazing little personality.  I am so truly blessed to be your mom.  It is my prayer that you have joy and love in your life, always.  Happy Birthday, my fidget!

Monday, March 9, 2009

Annika letting us know her birthday wishes.

Annika and I were sitting at the kitchen island when she began to let me know all about her upcoming birthday.  Although it is officially tomorrow, and we had her party on Saturday, this is what she had to say Friday evening...


The fidget is too cute!! 

Did she get the house with the little people?



Did she say please and thank you?

 Check back for more on when #4 turns 4!!

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Trying to catch a breath

Our week was a bit crazy here.  Madie had a bug that started... oh 13 days ago.  It was a Saturday and she held onto a fever, and headache and shredded throat.  I took her That Tuesday and she had both a rapid and a 24 hour strep, both of which were negative.  We were given antibiotics, and we finished them.  We were back in the doctors office on Monday (day 9) and our doc was perplexed.  Madie was still holding onto a fever, and if she wasn't sleeping (20 hrs a day) then she was letting me know her head and tummy were still killing her.  She would even point to her left side.  So 72 hrs later, with no change, I took her back in for a blood work up.  All her symptoms made me, and my nurse friend think that she had mono.  A few hours later they called to say it was negative.  I was at my wits end, had a mini melt down, and decided if we woke with more of the same, I was going to wrap her up and take her to children's.  I had to head to class for about an hour, so I gave her motrin and told Kaila to call me when she woke up.  After I got there Kaila texted me to let me know she woke up, temp was 98.6 and Madie said she was starving.  Shocked I stayed a while longer at class, and then headed home.  We woke this morning to a much more lively Madie.  She had color, and teased her brother.  Jake said he loved it since it meant that she was feeling better.  Now it is evening on the 13th day of this nasty virus, and Madie is curled up next to me on my bed snoring.  I am so overwhelmed with joy that she is feeling, and looking so much better than she did just over 24 hours ago.


On with life...

Tomorrow I get to go shopping for Annika's 4th birthday party!  She found an ad from walmart whose back page 2 pages were devoted to the smallest force in Disney's arsenal: Tinkerbell!  Yes, she about exploded into a ball of confetti over the images of the most imaginative tinker fairy.  Tomorrow we will have a Tinkerbell cake, with tinkerbell goodie bags, full of pink and green goodies.  We will drink green beverages, and Miss Fidget will no doubt get some gifts that may have tinkerbell's image.  I have some idea's in mind while I venture out to shop with my mother in law. 

On the horizon is my father in law's trip to Vietnam.  He will be going with other representatives with the United Methodist Church to help train future pastors there, and help with the planning of a facility that will act as a multi-purpose center for the community.  I am looking forward to hearing about his adventure.  But before he heads out we need to celebrate the 40 year anniversary of him and my mother in law on Sunday.  It takes a lot of patience, and understanding to make it to 40 years.  But their love for each other not only blessed me with my husband, but showed my husband how to be the man he is in our family.  

Congratulations Don and Marsha!!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Frugal Friday (hopefully worth the wait!)

DISCLAIMER:
I am a beginner to the whole wide world of couponing and deal seeking.  But I feel I should share what little bit I know starting out.  Our home surely is not the only one that is either on one tight income, or has a tribe of growing children, or has to endure the expense of caring for a child with special needs, or wondering how a few bags of groceries cost "How Much!!"
My goal for 2009 is to find ways to save more money, and in almost everything I buy, never pay full price!  There are deals to be had for just about EVERYthing we consume in our home.

What I know:
There are 2 general methods of saving coupons among the hardcore couponers.  
Method 1: Keep the coupon circulars in tact and simply date the front of the coupon circular and file them.  Some of the coupon/deal seeking websites will inform you of the best deals for products, they will tell you which circular, the date it was released, how much it is for, when it expired, and your final price after savings.  This method works for some, and seems making the coupon easy to find.  But I found that I was then sitting and clipping at the last minute and my circulars became a mess with all the clippings and loose paper hanging. 
Method 2:  Clip them all and organize them in a binder ( my choice).  I found a 2in. binder on clearance for few bucks.  It has a velcro closure ( I wanted a zipper, but this was rock bottom $), and pockets.   

It has a loops for pens, and a pocket for my scissors, a calculator, and my envelopes.


I love the pockets so I can file circulars as soon as I get them, and then clip them when I have time.  This is usually Sunday evening, Aaron and I will watch a movie or TV and clip away.  I also like to keep the adds for CVS, Walgreens, Target and our local grocery stores in here to price compare if needed. 


I purchased dividers and labeled them according to aisle categories. 


I purchased baseball card pocket sheets to store my coupons.  They face forward only, and duplicates get stacked in one pocket.  I have seen some alphabetize their dividers, but I like the aisle method.  I also have those who are expiring soonest at the front of that category. 

I also have tabbed sections for dining out (see below), and our local stores to store coupons that are only good at those stores. 



I have sheet protectors in with the store tabs where I have printed off the store policy with regards to coupons, price matching, and rain checks.  I have read stories where money has been lost due to a un-informed checker. 

Check your local grocery stores website out.  Some allow you to add savings to your shopper card and it is automatically deducted at the check out.  I will write a little list of what I added, or put a star next to the item on my shopping list, so I know I am getting a deal.  

As much as I hate having a bunch of plastic tabs on my key ring, it is like money hanging there to me.  I get store money back on our prescriptions at CVS, and get $.05 off a gallon at the pump at Speedway, and Kroger with a simple swipe of the card.  Kroger and CVS keep track of what I buy with the saver cards and Kroger will send me coupons for my most purchased items, several are free!  And CVS will email me tons of coupons.

I will check out the websites I love to see what the best deals are, my favs break it down by store and your final price for each item.  I make a menu for the week, and include extra meals, just in case.  I make my list, taking into consideration the super deals where I can stock up on items.  Stocking up seems to be the key here.  My shop day is Tuesday.  So I have 3 lists, one for each store I plan to visit.  I have my list and the coupons I intend to use at that store in an envelope.  I do take the binder on my shopping trip, just in case.  But I work through my list.  If an item is out of stock it goes in a fourth envelope to be held on to until I get can back before the end of the week.  If that doesn't happen, then those coupons get re-filed.  At the check out I have all the coupons ready to go for the things I have!

Where to go from here:

These are some of my favorite websites, and blogs.  Some are overwhelming, and some are good at giving you the basics.  Some are local, and some are national.  Some specialize in coupons only, and others have a variety of $ saving tips, and organizational ideas. 

I am lucky enough to have a mother in law who writes for our county newspaper, "The Clermont Sun".  She brings me a copy or two of the Red Plum and Smart Source inserts, which is a huge help.  I also pick up the Sunday edition of the Cincinnati Enquirer, here I get the coupons and all the national ads, in addition to the once a month and highly coveted P&G saver.

Here are website for printable coupons:
Check your stores policy about internet coupons before hand.  There are great deals to be had!

The Grocery Game -  I have a friend who was given a year to this service as a gift at her baby shower.  The idea is that for a monthly fee they give you a weekly board game of deals and tell you where the coupon can be found (from previous circulars) and whether it is an item to stock up on, and if it will be free.  I'm not keen on it since there is a fee involved, and you can only pick one store to have a game board for.  If you want more stores, then it is extra.  Some swear by it, but then I find the same information on the blogs of other deal seekers.  To each his own!

Coupons and things--  This is a company where you can buy clipped coupons, either individually or by entire circular.  If you really want to stock up on a great deal they can get the coupons to you in lightening speed. 


Here are my favorite sites for the best finds, tips and education:
The Coupon Game (not to be confused with the grocery game)

Here are a few sites for frugal meal ideas



If your and Old Navy lover then you have to check out Old Navy Weekly.  I have gotten 20% off my purchase, and I don't have to use an old navy credit card to redeem the coupon.  This is through ON and you have to find clues on the picture of their ad, and you earn your coupon.  They often have either $75 or $50 off of $100 purchase!!  Who wouldn't be thrilled to spend $25 on $100 worth of clothing?

And Finally
Wondering what to do with the expired coupons, or coupons you know you won't be using?
Send them overseas!  I have a friend who will be heading to Korea for 2 years with her husband.  I plan on sending her all my extras and expired coupons.  The Commissaries accept coupons up to 6 months past the expiration.  You can find a list of addresses for various bases by branch of service here, with all the rules and how to's.  Support our troops and families!


I hope I have inspired a few to rethink how they spend money on the consumables in their homes.  I don't know about you, but I would rather flush free TP down the toilet, than a $5 bill!

I hope to keep up with the frugal friday posts, to keep myself accountable with my plan to save us some dough, and hopefully help save you some money.  However, I do not see my blog becoming one of being only about coupons, and deals. My blog is intended to be a source of journal for me, and a way to allow my extended family and friends to keep up with the adventures of our tribe.  These fantastic ladies are doing a great job of getting the frugal tips out there, and they are true professionals.  So, if you want to laugh at my miss-adventures, check back later- if you want to save hardcore money- bookmark all those fabulous websites! 

Happy Saving!


Be Blessed!